Fear of Rejection

March 26, 2008

People have different fears. Fears that we don’t want to do and to see. But what do you call this fear of, a person is afraid of telling what her/his feelings? Let’s we say "Fear of Rejection".

All of these past days, months even before I had already this kind of fear. Most of people call me TORPE or MANHID. Way back since I was 1st year college, I had a Girlfriend, actually we are classmates since highschool. As I remember, I wrote a letter that contains what is really my feelings for her. After that, I had courted her. "Hinahatid at sinusundo ko sya sa kanilang bahay",  as most of the boys are doin when they are courting on a girl, inorder to impress the girl you like and he can sense that you are serious to her.  Time had passed so fast, and the moment that I’ve waited had already come, I had her sweet "Yes, I do", it means she can be my girlfriend! And also that was the time of our graduation day in High School.

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